so when are we gonna stop pretending beer tastes good
society talking about 50 shades again bc of that dang movie
"it’s giving the bdsm community a bad name!!!!"
let me tell you
the amount of abusers who hide in plain sight in the bdsm community, is astronomical. it IS scary. christian grey is not an abstract, he’s a stroll through the profile of a fetlifer.
it is not a coincidence that the bdsm community on here, is largely comprised of daddy doms and submissive infantilized women.
and do you know who’s an ageplayer? ayyyyy, it’s me. i love bdsm, i love kink, it’s a big part of my life. but you can’t give a bad rep to the bdsm community when it’s already earned the bad rep.
to be sure, 50 shades is a terrible representation of a “healthy” kink relationship when it’s nothing of the like. and it carries the very real danger of giving people, especially women, harmful ideas of what they should expect from a relationship.
but you can’t honestly stand there and tell people that christian greys don’t exist in “real bdsm.” they do. people are very justified in being wary of the kink community, and it’s our job to acknowledge it, and repair it. not sweep it under a rug.
Fifty Shades of Domestic Abuse
50 Shades of Damaging Stereotypes
Fifty Shades of Wanna Guess How Many People Will Be Hospitalized Due To Flesh Wounds From Improper Knots After The Movie?
50 Shades of Glorified Abuse
50 Shades of Kidney Damage from Incompetent Crop Use
Fifty Shades of Pathological Violence Due To Past Trauma Isn’t Kink
50 Shades of “No Safe Word” Doms accidentally killing their subs due to improper communication.